7. For Nameless
For the sake of hurt feelings, fine. In the future I WILL post and write anything I want and feel. Truth isn't always kind and it was not a slam, it was a clear observation I hope in time will be recognized.
For the record.... I speak personally to all of my dedications. Thus the definition of the word. Can go ahead and scroll if don't believe me. I can insert the video of Struck a Nerve if that's more fitting. Chill.
- DM
For the record.... I speak personally to all of my dedications. Thus the definition of the word. Can go ahead and scroll if don't believe me. I can insert the video of Struck a Nerve if that's more fitting. Chill.
- DM
posted by DMorgan's Zoo at
8:15 PM
8 Comments:
I miss stuff when I don't check often enough, dang! I'm not sure what happened, but I figure it's your blog, you should blog whatever you want. If someone doesn't like it, they shouldn't read.
My sentiments exactly and it was not an unkind dedication whatsoever.
Nameless: With all respect, I advise you stop reading this blog or steel yourself to what you may find in the future. I’m not sure your relationship to Ms. M, but even in RL she always feels free to express her thoughts and opinions. Sometimes the hearing can be painful, but would you prefer her to lie to you? I don’t agree with all her opinions, but they are hers and she didn’t form them from thin air. If you are hurt by something she has expressed about you – even if you adamantly disagree – step outside yourself and ask how she might have come to that conclusion. Maybe a change in your behavior would get a different response. Maybe you need to tell her you disagree and why her assessment is wrong or maybe just keep quiet and move forward with the information.
My point is, this is basically a journal. She has assured your anonymity, as she is always careful to do. I’m willing to risk a hurt feeling from time to time in order for her to feel free in all that she says. I certainly don’t want her self-censoring.
Wow BLD, I am almost teary. I know you have bitten a tongue many times when I've spoken poorly of your mum, and god knows it would have taken a LOT from me to do the same. I'm not certain I have your sense of restraint in that way. I'm very sorry I upset someone quite close to me, rest assured it was nothing cruel, but potentially viewed as airing dirty laundry. And yes, I don't use names outright so.... I'm about as shocked as anyone, not sorry about what I posted, but sorry feelings were hurt, when I aim to be mean, it's not debatable... it's blaringly obvious and that was not the case.
ps - I never want ANYONE to keep quiet if I've said something to upset them. Perhaps not publically, but I can take the consequences of things I say and defend my opinions, which time to time are obsolutely retarded. Defensiveness is red flag to me, but understandable. BLD you are wise beyond your years my sweet.
thank you, though I question that assessment, lol. the older i get the more pedestrian I feel.
I haven't decided yet if that's a bad or good thing.
I second what BLD said! Blog on Sista!
Woot. Same time I did not mean to hurt, especially the intended. I will blog on and it's not unreasonable to tell me something I've said upset a person. THAT is why it came down, and more so, only because it was a particular person who is upset. It was a freebie imo, and I don't want that person feeling slighted... no matter how true.
BLD I think your assessment of me is pretty spot on, my opinions might be off kilter at times, but yes they are mine and I' be a liar not to say how I feel. I don't want to see a blog crop up that I'm a liar lol. If were any good at lying, I'd be rich.
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